☆ mono's about me ☆

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heyo, i'm mono! (she/her) i'm an 18 y/o artist who's heavily inspired by alternative music and alternative subculture, with an emphasis on goth & scenemo. i'm also a huge nerd for anything & everything Pokémon, Sonic X, and Kill la Kill!

BOUNDARIES

this is a list of basic boundaries that i'd appreciate being respected when speaking with me. it's okay if you make mistakes, but pushing these boundaries may lead to decreased or cut contact.

  • above all, PLEASE be direct when talking to me! i do not do well with small talk, beating around the bush, euphemisms, etc. i struggle most with understanding jokes and sarcasm, so being open to explaining and/or being blunt helps me out a lot.

  • dms that say "hi" / "hey" or ones that only contain a sticker will be ignored. sorry, but no normal person has the time to respond to everyone who says "hey" - just get to the point, or if you want a conversation, please say something interesting!

  • please do NOT try to roleplay with me, no matter who you are.

  • don't ask for free shit, this includes art. beggars will be blocked. feel free to ask about commissions if you'd like to BUY some art though! (wink wonk)

  • do NOT send me NSFW without permission. includes msgs and photos.

  • do NOT ask for photos of me, it's weird if i don't know you, and you won't get anything for it.

  • venting is okay if we're close friends, but it's nice to ask beforehand as i may not be in a good headspace for it.

  • do NOT make sexual comments or jokes about sex, dating, etc. towards me.

  • no mind games, no guilt tripping, no manipulative BS.

  • please don't lie to me as a "joke," i probably won't pick up on it.

DNI LIST

☆ please do not interact if you are (or support) the following! this is to minimize my interactions with folks who are hateful and spread harmful views ☆

  • general DNI (homophobia, transphobia, pedos, ableism, proship, zoos, racism, etc.)

  • radinclus/TERFs/basically anyone who believes gender or sexuality is a choice

  • self dx, disorder faking, anti-recovery

  • xenogenders & neopronouns

  • misogynists & sexists

  • msnfw (minor or 18- nsfw accs)

  • ED promoters, bodyshaming

  • dream stans / dsmp stans

  • all animal nsfw accs, including furry porn

  • ALL political extremists

  • pushy religious folks, i'm not here for you to convert me

"PLEASE INTERACT" LIST!

  • LGBTQ/LGBTA

  • artists

  • anti-disorder fakers / realDX / anyone on their healing journey!

  • neurodivergent people

  • skaters

  • ANYONE who likes alternative music & fashion (except nazi punks and their ilk, fuck off)

  • truscum

  • satanists (theistic & atheistic welcome)

  • atheists

  • agnostics

  • respectful religious folks

  • STRICTLY SFW furries

  • body neutrality lovers

  • anyone in who's just here to chill, vibe, and be cool 😎 if you get offended easily or often label stuff as "problematic," then we probably won't get along.

PRONOUNS

  • she/her are my pronouns, however i don't pay much attention to pronouns and honestly don't care.

  • i do my best to respect all pronouns and identities that i can, however due to my speech and processing problems i will use they/them for you if your pronouns are ungendered and inaccessible. i also don't condone or support xenogenders/neopronouns regardless due to the transphobic and ableist nature of them. see this if you're confused: https://howtostopbeingtransphobic.carrd.co/